Post by Kate on Sept 3, 2005 22:31:26 GMT -5
one thing i have noticed speaking to so many different people is most are alike. almost everyone likes to play the blame game. everything that has happened to them even to generations back blame it on someone else. if someone hadn't done this or if someone had done that. everyone seems to think things could be different if. but what did they do to change it? most, nothing. and now play the blame game. who i am is because i made myself what i am. i did not follow family or friend. i made my life. everything i had or did not have growing up did not make me. the people in my life did not make me. if bad things happened i tried to learn from it then promptly forgot that time. if good things happened to me i learned from it and try to remember the good times only. we make ourselves happy. how can we make anyone else happy if we can not even make ourselves happy. happiness starts within. and can spread faster than any colony of roaches. we can make a difference if we stop playing the blame game and look for happiness.